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Most puppies quickly learn a predictable pattern: the car only moves when something big happens. Usually, that’s a trip to the vet (scary pokes!) or the park (overwhelming excitement!).
When every car ride is a “High Stakes Event,” you end up with a dog that is either shaking with anxiety or screaming with anticipation the moment you grab your keys.
To raise a calm traveler, you need to master the Non-Event Car Journey. Here’s how to make the car just another room of the house.
With practice this will help you achieve:
- Relaxed car journeys.
- Creating a positive car experience.
What you'll need
- A crate in your car
- A tasty filled Kong or other safe chew
- Your car!
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Step-by-step
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If 100% of your drives end at the park, your puppy’s adrenaline spikes the moment the engine turns over. This “hype” often manifests as whining, pacing, or lunging at the window. Conversely, if the car only leads to the vet, you’re building a negative association.
The solution? Drive to nowhere.
1. The “Drive and Drop”
Start taking your puppy on errands where they don’t even get out of the car.
- The Routine: Load them up, drive through a coffee shop or a post office drop-box, and drive straight back home.
- The Lesson: “We went for a ride, nothing crazy happened, and now we’re back in the kitchen.”
2. The Driveway Diner
You don’t even have to leave the property to build positive associations.
- The Routine: Put your puppy in their car crate or harness with a high-value chew (like a stuffed Kong) and just sit there. Read a book or scroll on your phone for 10 minutes.
• The Lesson: The car is a place where we relax and chew things. It’s a “chill zone,” not just a “go zone.”
Making it “Everyday Life”
Integration is better than isolation. If you’re heading to pick up a takeaway or drop a kid at practice, bring the pup. Here are three tips to keep it seamless:
- Vary the Duration: Don’t let every “non-event” ride be the same length. Some should be two minutes; some should be twenty.
- Manage the View: If your puppy gets worked up by seeing bikes or other dogs through the glass, consider a covered crate or a car seat that keeps them below the window line. This reduces “barrier frustration.”
- Keep Your Energy Low: If you’re “using your puppy voice” and acting like it’s a big party, they will too. Be boring. Use a neutral tone and ignore minor whining.
The Golden Rule: Don’t Wait for a Reason
The biggest mistake owners make is waiting until they need to go somewhere to put the dog in the car. By then, you’re usually in a rush, which adds stress to the equation.
Try this challenge: For the next seven days, put your puppy in the car once a day for a “boring” five-minute loop. No park, no vet, no treats from the Starbucks window—just a quiet drive.
WARNING! Do not leave dogs in cars on hot days as the car can heat up to dangerous temperatures within minutes, even with a window open.
Top tips for success
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Pro Tip: A tired puppy is a calm passenger. Try a quick “non-event” ride after a training session or a play period when they are naturally ready to settle.
- Is your puppy barking in the car? Take a look at the worksheet attached and get in touch – we can work through this with some one-to-one training.
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