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A guide to puppy socialisation: how to do it right
Socialisation is the most important thing you can do for your puppy. This guide explains how to do it right—building a confident, well-adjusted adult dog by creating positive experiences, not overwhelming ones.
With practice this will help you achieve:
- Calmly walking past other dogs.
- Relaxing in a dog-friendly café.
- Not being scared by loud noises.
- Preparing them for life!
What you'll need
- High-value treats
- My free downloadable Socialisation Guide & Checklist
- A calm and patient attitude
Downloads
Socialisation GuideDownload
Step-by-step
- Understand what socialisation really is: It’s not just about meeting other dogs. It’s about creating positive, and sometimes even neutral experiences with all the sights, sounds, and smells of our world. The goal is a dog that is calm and confident, not scared or worried by new things.
- The first 16 weeks: Your puppy’s brain is like a sponge during this critical period. Focus on short, positive, and safe introductions to things like the vacuum cleaner, different surfaces, quiet traffic, and calm, friendly people.
- Prioritise quality over quantity: One calm, happy experience is better than ten overwhelming ones. Keep interactions short and sweet, always allowing your puppy to move away if they want to. Never force them to interact.
- Advocate for your puppy: It is your job to be your puppy’s protector. It’s okay to say “no” to people who want to pet them if your puppy is unsure. Your goal is to build their confidence, not expose them to scary situations.
Top tips for success
- Download my free Socialisation Guide for a comprehensive checklist of experiences.
- Always pair new experiences with high-value treats to build a positive association.
- A well-socialised puppy doesn’t have to interact with everything; they just need to be calm in its presence.
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Want guidance on your socialisation journey?
Knowing what to do and when can be tricky. If you want a personalised plan or the chance to socialise your puppy in a safe, controlled group environment, my Puppy Head Start sessions and Group Classes are the perfect way to get expert support.
